If you are planning to coach your own son or daughter's team this season, I highly recommend that you read this article by Janis Meredith:
6 Steps to Successfully Coaching Your Own Child.
Meredith offers the following advice for the benefit of all involved - the child, the parent, the team and the league:
1. Get objective opinions about each child's abilities from your fellow coaches.
2. Give fair treatment to all. Don't treat your child better or worse than the other players.
3. Do not coach at home unless your child brings it up.
4. Prepare your kids for peer pressure they may encounter because you are the coach.
5. Remind your child that you are their coach on the field, not just their parent.
6. Be an unconditional coach. "If you are going to volunteer to help coach your child's team, commit yourself to doing what's best for the entire team, not just your child. If you can't do that, don't coach."
So many leagues have been negatively affected by "daddyball." The "what's in it for me and my kid" attitude